Black Daters

Dating Tips...

For Women...

Tip 1#
Lots of men are shy! We all know this, but actually a lot of men feel quite insecure about asking a woman out.

Secondly, men are not as picky about their partners as women are! Trust me on this one! After a Black Daters session I used to score the cards. Women have often picked either one or two men. Men have usually picked five or six.

This means, the reserved black woman who is waiting for the man to ask her out, might be waiting till hell freezes over. The confident black woman who goes up to a man and just breaks the ice, well, she may have just snagged herself a man.

Go on try it - talk to him. What have you got to lose...?

For Men...

Tip 2#

Every woman wants to feel special. I really do mean all women when I say this. I don't care how indepenedent and strong a women is, there are times when she wants her partner to make her feel special.

It means doing something that shows her that you are thinking about her.

You will get extra brownie points if you actually listen when she talks to you. You can pick up the idea to make her feel special from something she has said!

For example, she regularly says " I am so fed up, I desperately want a holiday"

Mega rich dudes - take her on one!

Regular guys - create a holiday vibe. Make cocktails with fruit and umbrellas. Pop on a CD of music, unwrap a selection of food from the country you are "on holiday in".

Suprise her when she comes in.

I promise you its worth the effort!

Black Daters

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